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I love brunettes. They are so sensual and have something we call in french... avoir du chien...
So what do most men fantacize about blondes ?
So what do most men fantacize about blondes ?
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Unsu...
Re: why do men prefer blondes
Thu, September 29, 2005 - 1:24 PMpretty much the same stuff I fantasize about brunettes... -
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Re: why do men prefer blondes
Thu, September 29, 2005 - 7:24 PMI've heard it said that a preference for blondes is actually built-in to our genes ...
Blonde hair is a recessive trait, disfavored by nature/evolution. Hair is pretty much superfluous and primarily serves as a device for attracting mates. So if you have lush hair in the color of a recessive gene, it means you have a fully-functioning immune system, an adequate food supply, etc.
i.e. -- good candidate for reproduction.
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Fri, September 30, 2005 - 3:58 PMi did not know we did -
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Fri, September 30, 2005 - 4:08 PMI don't believe it.
I have always been attracted to brunettes and have dated only 1 redhead and 1 blonde in my years.
I guess I'm not an average guy. -
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Fri, September 30, 2005 - 9:12 PMAbove-average, I'd say, based on your impeccable taste. Well above-average.
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Fri, October 14, 2005 - 2:47 AMYeah im not the blond tbe i like bruetts the best.. -
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Fri, October 14, 2005 - 2:04 PMjust for the record... i like them all... brunettes, blondes, red, orange, blue (really sexy.. weird?)... but with blondes... i guess with me.. opposites attract... i've always been a sucker for blonde's... yum.. probably the wrong place to mention that... but hey.. my last girlfriend was a brunettes. -
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Unsu...
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Tue, November 8, 2005 - 11:14 AMI love guys who love brunettes! -
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Tue, November 8, 2005 - 12:57 PMI don't descriminate......but I do prefer Brunettes....24.5 years with one....
I've asked my wife if she'd dye her hair.....
Since she's Japanese she doesn't think it would look right...it would just turn red
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Unsu...
Re: why do men prefer blondes
Tue, November 8, 2005 - 6:49 PM>> I love guys who love brunettes
Count me in that club. My hair seems to keep getting darker and darker as I grow older so I have no complaints with men who dig brunettes. -
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Wed, November 9, 2005 - 10:45 AMBecause they are smarter and sexyer!!!! -
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Wed, November 9, 2005 - 11:34 PM"because they are smarter and sexier!!"
We are enamoured here:)) -
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Thu, November 10, 2005 - 7:23 AMI actually do perfer brunettes- but um like all types -
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Mon, November 14, 2005 - 7:42 PM
any other girls here who feel more *themselves* when you go a darker or deeper shade of brunette?
the way alot of women say they feel when they go lightest blonde ("like a new you/outgoing/sexy"), I feel when I go dark! It's awesome.
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Mon, November 14, 2005 - 11:02 PMN, I keep my natural white streak across my widows peak and color the rest of my thin mane. my stylist has named this special mix "Eager Beaver" He Heee
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Thu, November 24, 2005 - 11:25 AMI love you too...
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Tue, November 15, 2005 - 1:56 PMI've always had a preference for brunettes. I think the saying is gentlemen prefer blondes and I'm not a gentleman. So, there.
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Tue, November 15, 2005 - 2:26 PMI have never dated, nor been with a blonde. I have always liked brunettes. Blondes are nice to look at, but that's about it. Also did you know that blondes age faster then brunettes. -
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Thu, November 17, 2005 - 9:50 PMMy co-worker Tim told me the other day that his mom is blonde, and that blonde just turn him off (tho he does like his mom) :)
He prefers brunettes, the darker the better... -
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Fri, November 18, 2005 - 11:25 AMWhile I can completely understand a preference for brunettes, in your co-worker's case it could be nothing more than a subconscious repression of an Oedipus complex! ;) -
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Fri, November 18, 2005 - 11:51 AMWait a minute....I thought the Oedipus complex was a desire to do your mom. If his mom is blond and blonds turn him off, then he doesn't have an Oedipus complex. He just doesn't like his mom ;-) -
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Fri, November 18, 2005 - 10:20 PMParisa... We know what you're doing... you're trying to imitate a blond! Good one! You know perfectly well that he would avoid her if he was trying to REPRESS his desires for her! -
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Sun, November 20, 2005 - 8:51 AMHow many Psychologists does it take to Screw in a light bulb??? (Smile) -
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Re: why do men prefer blondes
Sun, November 20, 2005 - 8:15 PM>> How many Psychologists does it take to Screw in a light bulb???
I haven't heard this one. How many? -
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Sun, November 20, 2005 - 8:29 PMHi Parisa....
You have to excuse me... I am a silly kinda guy and was trying to poke harmless fun at all the armchair psychoanalysis that was going on .....
But just to keep it light (Smile) ... here are a couple ones
Q: How many psychologists does it take to change a light bulb?
A: None, the bulb will change itself when it is ready.
A2:Only one, but the lightbulb has to WANT to change.
I am of the opinion that psychology/psychiatry is a lot like meterology ... in that they are both best characterizing what already happened ....
Of course I will get lots of flak from all the mental health professionals out there ..... Hey its just my opinion ....
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Re: why do men prefer blondes
Mon, November 21, 2005 - 8:40 PM>> Of course I will get lots of flak from all the mental health professionals out there ..... Hey its just my opinion ....
No flak from me. I enjoy shrink jokes. Makes my job a little easier.
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Re: why do men prefer blondes
Mon, December 5, 2005 - 10:58 PMParisa, Nope, He just prefers us Luscious Brunettes!
He doesn't have an Oedipus complex.
Wise man he is..
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Unsu...
Re: why do men prefer blondes
Fri, November 18, 2005 - 1:33 PMCould it be because somewhere in their subconscious they are being influenced by the 'dumb blonde' sterotype and think the blond woman can be more easily manipulated, seduced, and will be an easier lay?
Or is it because the WASP-dictated social/cultural labels in general in our society on color are that lighter implies more innocence and purity, and this makes for a more desirable conquest because it's a boost to their egos to say they have acquired such an increasingly rare prize?
Not a line of thinking I follow, just throwing it out there (too much residual sociology course material still in my head, I suppose).
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Re: why do men prefer blondes
Mon, December 5, 2005 - 7:23 AMI can't fully explain my preference for brunettes, which further leads me to believe it is one of those attractions that is animal in nature. Genetic, subconscious, animal instinct, opposites attract, whatever you want to call it.
On an intellectual level, it makes no difference to me, and the attraction is not exclusive. I have been with blondes before and am with one now.
But all other things being equal, on a purely physical level, I will find myself more sexually attracted to a brunette than to an equally attractive blonde.
And part of it is that I like big brown eyes, which natural blondes seldom have. Those rare natural blondes with brown eyes and tan skin drive me wild.
Of course, those rare creatures with deep blue eyes and a lush head of beautiful brunette hair also drive me wild. As do certain red heads. It is just a preference.
Intellectually, the only thing I can say for why I don't idealize the blue eyed blondes the way most men do is that I find them a bit dull. While they may be very pretty, they are usually not exotic or wild enough for my liking. I take blondes for granted, I guess. If I was from some place where blondes were rare, I would probably think they were exotic and would be more attracted to them. -
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Mon, December 5, 2005 - 9:35 AMLet's see... you like blonds, you like brunettes, you like red heads... I think we see a pattern here!!! ;) -
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Unsu...
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Mon, December 5, 2005 - 10:33 AMYeah, I like all kinds of dames, except the shaved head look doesn't do much for me.
But all other things being equal, I prefer brunettes. And I don't really know why.
Does anyone really know what forms the basis for their attractions? I mean, we can all agree on some basic objective criteria for what is attractive (symetry, porpotion, health), but if shown a large number of equally attractive females, why does one guy tend to prefer the blondes and one guy prefers the bruntette and yet another guy the redheads?
Why do we love those brunettes, damnit!
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Mon, December 5, 2005 - 11:02 PMAndy, "Why do we love those brunettes, dammit!"
Because you have really great taste! We are simply the BEST! -
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Unsu...
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Mon, December 5, 2005 - 11:06 PMThat is circular reasoning, but I'll accept it. -
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Re: why do men prefer blondes
Sun, December 11, 2005 - 4:22 AMWe have a tendency to "LUST" after a blonde, but deep in our hearts, we have "PASSION" for brunettes. I know I do. :-) -
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Mon, December 12, 2005 - 11:24 PMNah... I can't agree with that one! I have a "LUST" for many attractive women, regardless of hair color. I have a "PASSION" for darker hair... brunettes in general, auburn for pale-skinned freckled females, and the deepest brunette, or black, for Asians.
I've dated blonds, some of whom were extremely attractive. But as far as I'm concerned, they don't stir my juices like a beautiful brunette! -
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Tue, December 13, 2005 - 1:12 AMAll this talk has definitely dissuaded me from going blonde like I had been thinking about doing...
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Re: why do men prefer blondes
Tue, December 13, 2005 - 6:24 PMIf we can keep just one brunette from bleaching her hair, then our purpose here has been served!
Well, going blonde will attract certain types of guys, and staying natural will attract other types of guys.
I think that guys who appreciate natural hair color are a higher class generally
Whenever I have been into blondes, it was natural blondes. Dyed blondes leave me cold, and the dark roots are just - not classy. It may be a sexual turn on for some guys, and it may work for Shakira, but ...
Stay bruntette! -
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Wed, December 14, 2005 - 4:01 PMPlease, Please, Please...all brunettes stay brunette!!!!! Do not change a thing. You are all beautiful. -
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Wed, December 14, 2005 - 5:43 PMThis thread just keeps getting longer and longer. Hats off to the brunettes in our world. -
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Thu, December 15, 2005 - 7:37 PMI think brunettes are fundamentally hotter than blondes ...
Or should I say the hottest ... ! ! ! ! (Smile)
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Thu, December 22, 2005 - 3:34 PMI Love brunettes too. I repeat I really love brunettes. Really, Really, alot. -
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Tue, January 3, 2006 - 12:30 AMChris, This is to you and Hyper and Cole, WE LOVE YOU TOO!!
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Re: why do men prefer blondes
Mon, January 2, 2006 - 5:07 PMHmmm...they watch to much TV??
=oP
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Unsu...
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Tue, January 3, 2006 - 10:03 PMThey don't. Deep down they know a sexy brunette always makes the grade. -
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Wed, January 4, 2006 - 7:48 AMand Jamie the grade is always A+ -
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Thu, January 5, 2006 - 4:47 PMwell, blondes are not usually as complex as brunettes............. -
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Thu, January 5, 2006 - 5:19 PM>> well, blondes are not usually as complex as brunettes
That's a crock. Blondes aren't as intriguing as brunettes. -
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Re: why do men prefer blondes
Thu, January 5, 2006 - 7:29 PMcan't you I just like Brunettes better as a matter of taste ..????
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Fri, January 6, 2006 - 12:54 PMbeing more complex is more intriguing -
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Unsu...
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Fri, January 6, 2006 - 12:59 PMGot ya...I didn't know you meant complex as a positive thing. Some people would view that as a negative. -
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Fri, January 6, 2006 - 1:06 PMNot sure what Wild meant, but to me compex and intriguing are nearly synonyms, especially regarding women. -
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Unsu...
Re: why do men prefer blondes
Sat, January 7, 2006 - 4:18 PMIt's true that brunettes taste better than blondes. Chemistry is all important in attraction...
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